When writing a sex scene, there are several different ways to go about it. The easiest way that I have found to do this is to use your own experiences. When you need to add some spice to it you think about what you are too shy to ask for. If you can enter their world and become a different person it can give you permission to do all the things you have dreamed about. Using different names for body part and erogenous zones help make a scene different. Think of places to have sex that are out of the ordinary. Don’t always have your characters “making love” in their beds. To have sex you don’t always have to make love sometimes you just need to be bent over a couch and taken. Try being in places that you might get caught or outside under a tree. Have them do things that are out of your comfort zone. Use all of your senses, feel their skin, smell their hair, hear their sighs or heartbeat and taste their lips or skin. Writing with details of your specific characters and scenes gives a real feel to what is happening. For the women reading your story detailed foreplay is mandatory. Your readers want details and activities that are different than what is in your daily life. These scenes should be fun and titillating to write. They should be able to turn you on and make you want to jump your significant other! Be daring, be adventurous let your characters have the experiences you always wanted.